There have been many times when men I was once involved with came back to me. Each time, I asked them, "Why?" Through these interviews, I found some common answers. Of course, not every single person comes back—there are many men in the world, and sometimes, someone else is simply a better match for them. Memories of past relationships get stored away on the bookshelf of the mind. Also, compared to women, men tend to hold on to memories of past relationships more. However, whether they act on those feelings depends on whether they have the courage to take action. That said, when people are in a relationship, they are usually too focused on the present to consciously think, "I want to be a woman who stays in his memory." I never aimed for that. It just happened. Now, I’d like to share my experiences. The Overwhelming Sense of Comfort Based on my interviews, the most common reasons men gave for wanting to come back were: She was healing She made my heart race She wa...